In assuming the promised mantle of the DGAF manner of fucklessness prophesied in passing out of one’s 30s, I am finding it particularly easy, useful and fun to fully shed the weight of other people’s judgments. Like, I dress to delight me, so that when I catch a glimpse of…

A quick story about a knife-wielding tech bro that is top-of-mind for me at the minute thanks to today’s arrest: Several years ago, James and I were partying with some friends at a fancy underground venue that regularly hosted events that were lots of fun and legally dodgy. Shhh!! …

Some quick thoughts on gun violence from overseas: Today, Dash and I had a lazy morning. We both slept in a bit, though he snoozed even longer than I did, and while he was cuddled up next to me I shared some photos of our fun times around London yesterday. …

Today, California’s COVID emergency declaration expired. I am currently sitting in my basement, isolating from my family, because I have COVID. And it is not an emergency. I want to talk about what’s changed in the last year, from the perspective of my household, because it’s kind of mind-blowing. Plus…

“‘The crisis from the Omicron peak is not generated by serious COVID illness in regions with highly vaxxed populations,’ Noble wrote in an email to SFGATE. ‘The crisis we are suffering in the Bay Area is largely driven by disruptive COVID policies that encourage asymptomatic testing and subsequent quarantines. …

In the early days of last year, we watched Trump’s attempted coup penetrate Congress by force. Shots were fired in the Senate chamber. Police officers were assaulted and killed. Insurrectionists broke into offices of our elected officials and were talking murder. The acute episode occurred on January 6th, 2021, but…

I’ve just had one of those beautiful, fortuitous moments of parenthood; lovely and serene, bonded and treasured. I got a do-over. . Last night, Dash was messing around at bedtime quite late. He has been figuring out the technologies of his bedroom, and the lights were all the way on…

Being in the rural Midwest during these COVIDeous times to care for an elderly man who is medically vulnerable is really wild. Having weathered the initial lockdown in San Francisco — a city which easily could have been hit as hard as New York but rather opted to take early…